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Mediation, plainly explained
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What does a mediator actually do?
We run the conversation: we set the list of issues, keep it moving, help each of you understand the other's offer, and write down what you agree. We don't decide anything for you.
Is the mediator anyone's lawyer?
No. We're neutral and represent neither of you. We may explain how an issue is usually handled, but we can't advise one of you against the other.
Should we each have a lawyer?
You may, and it's often a good idea before you sign. Your lawyer can review the draft, join a session, or just answer your questions between sessions.
How many sessions will we need?
Most matters take one or two sessions over two to four weeks. Business matters with many pieces can take longer.
Do we need to be in the same place?
No. Sessions are by video, from wherever each of you is. If you'd rather meet in person, we have a room in Denver.
What if one of us is afraid of the other?
Tell us on your private fit call. A shared session may not be safe or fair, and we'll help you find a better route. Nothing you say on that call is shared.
What happens to what we agree?
You both receive the same written summary. If you'd like, we draft a signed agreement that your lawyers can review and, where needed, file with a court.
What if we don't agree on everything?
Then you keep what you did agree on, in writing, and take the rest to a lawyer or a judge. You don't give up any rights by trying.
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